Wednesday, June 13, 2007

Blame yourself for what you are today

My company is conducting its annual employee review this month hence there are a lot of gossips and rumours going around like "who's getting promoted", "who's going to have post", "what's going to be my grade", and etc.. Of course there are bound to be disappointments like "Why is he promoted instead of me?" or "Why are they so lucky?" Let me explain why.

Marie Callas said all things happen for a reason. What's in our life today is the result of what we have done all the past years. You really can't blame God, government, your parents, spouse or other people. If today you are poor, you can't blame them, blame it on yourself for not doing the right things to be prosperous or happy today.

Take for example, if you treat your parents with disdain, in times to come, your kids will treat you with disdain too. It's happening too often in our midst and I am sad about all that.

We need to put in efforts in order to harvest the fruits we desired. By remembering that the law of attraction always applies, we should avoid things that we can foresee that gives us negative results in the future. On the other hand, we should do things that could help gain a positive feeling on ourselves, so that others are happy being with us and this leads us to begin to be happy as well!

Well, this is based on my own understanding. I believe the details are just too subtle for me to grasp at this moment. But do remember this very basic idea. Your life will be better in times to come.